This is my second pearla as I had the black but couldn’t resist the red (doesn’t red always go faster?! ;) ) this has always been my favourite vibrator. Personally I’m more of a fan of vibrators that stimulate externally rather than internally even though I own many of the HB toys. I use it alone and in the bath. Then love it for forplay and during sex with my partner. I’ve only actually used it in the underwear a handful of times which is extremely convenient when performing oral sex on your partner so you get more enjoyment out of it to. The softness, luxury and quality of honey birdette toys is second to none and I don’t bother buying any other toys anymore.